My name is Andy Caraway. I am currently a licensed professional counselor in Colorado. I have a M.S. in Counseling Psychology from Avila University in Kansas City, MO and a M.S. in Education from the University of Kansas. I am an addiction specialist and have also have experience working with individuals dealing with anxiety, depression, personality disorders, sexual issues and trauma. I like to include eastern philosophy into my treatment and have a person-centered style of therapy.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Are you "Special Needs"???
Monday, October 19, 2009
Whatever Works ... Work it!
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
A Confession and Some Pleas
A Confession: First I have to start with this. A while back I talked about my goal to be down to 200 lbs. by the end of summer. Well summer is here and I have not reached my goal. If anything I have backtracked some in the last couple of weeks. Why? I have this theory that psychologists/therapists/counselors have some of the greatest amounts of baggage of most people. Though they can have brilliant insight into others lives and give great advice and coaching, their lives can still be completely screwed up (not in all cases of course). I think trainers can be a little like this as well. Even though we can work with and “diagnose” people and give them great tools to fix their fitness regiment – the application of those principles to us is sometimes the greatest challenge. I think it may have something to do, in both cases, with having so many strategies and so much knowledge up there (in our heads) that we have trouble self diagnosing and treating if you will. So back to my issue. I know what I did wrong. I can give excuses like my trips or my tattoo that kept me from working out for a few days or my new schedule. But that is what they are excuses.
SO what now. Well, trying to look at what I would tell someone else in my shoes. It is time to reassess my goal. I need to analyze what went wrong and how I can more effectively approach it this time. Also I need to modify my goal. SOOOOOO! My goal now is to be at 210 lbs. by Christmas. I will set the bar a little lower and if I reach it early then great. In the meantime, I need to focus my energy again on my diet as that was and is my Achilles heel. But the point is I have acknowledged that I didn't reach my goal and accepted it and now I have to strive on towards a new goal that is attainable and appropriate.
A plea: In short I would like to make a plea to anyone who has thought about group training, specifically my group training, to give it a try. I really believe it is an awesome deal and the folks that have participated and stuck with it I think really see the value. It is a really good deal and I believe that the instruction and workouts are super effective and important. I have seen several of my participants improve by leaps and bounds in just a few sessions. The class setting is sometimes the best place to learn and achieve.
A plea part II: Here is the soapbox part. I plea to anyone and everyone who uses a challenge as a reason for inaction to stop doing so. What I mean is – lately I have heard numerous people use physical limitations or perceived limitations to keep them from exercising certain areas. A common one is the legs. I have heard several people try and tell me that they have leg issues, injuries, lack of flexibility, even too good of legs – as a reason not to exercise them. Simple logic and science should tell you that inaction is not going to solve a problem. If there are flexibility issues, then not stretching is not going to help. If there is a history of injuries, then “protecting” them by avoiding is not going to help your cause. Remember people – legs are your locomotion. They move you and carry you and support you. As you get older they are all the more important. The stronger that foundation is and more limber and agile they are – the better they will serve you as you age. I don’t care how old you are or what shape they are in – they need to be challenged and taken care of. Of course – there is an appropriate strategy for doing so and if you aren’t sure what that is – then see a trainer (hint, hint). This is my example but it can be applied to any issue you hear people using as excuses not address issues.
Okay – enough for now. Thanks so much for reading!
Andy
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Types of Workouts ...
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
A Couple of Successes!!!
Tuesday, July 28, 2009
"Running ... My Struggle"
So I went running today. I really hate running. I can do all other forms of cardio for a decent amount of time without “hating” it. But running … I am miserable within the first five minutes. As soon as I start I realize that my lungs are being taxed in a way that other forms of cardio just don’t cause. I can almost feel every joint in my body as I take each stride – pound pound pound! To make it worse I did this outside so I had to deal with the what goes down must come up phenomena. That is, when I find an area of downhill that is a little easier, inevitably I know that an uphill area is coming. I always sweat more outside and I have to wipe the sweat with my t-shirt. And if I feel like I need to walk, just for a second, I feel like everyone in their houses or cars is watching me thinking I am a slacker. And finally, to make matters worse. I had one of those rare mornings where I woke up and felt like jumping out of bed to take on the world, and cardio before breakfast is always a sure fire way to fire that metabolism up and make you caloric burning machine. Of course I had lost a bit of that enthusiasm about 20 minutes into my uphill climb number 3. And then, because I believe many people including bigger men shouldn’t run much because of our weight and as such you really need to do solid stretches after and even a little before your run, the whole ordeal took like 45 minutes. Yeah yeah – it felt great after I was done … I had accomplished great feat for the morning …I started my day off right … I hate running.
So why did I run? Some may know that I am trying to get to 200 lbs. by summers end. At this point – I might need to clarify that summer does not end until September 21st or so. Yes I am struggling. Actually my workouts have been quite productive. My issues have had more to do with “consumption” than output if you catch my drift. I have a great workout partner and we are on a solid muscle maintaining/fat burning lifting schedule with a solid 30 minutes of cardio 6 days a week. But those darned old weekends come along and with them comes “social gatherings”, a “drink” here and there, a nice dinner out and next thing you know I have all but negated much of what I accomplished over the week.
My point with all this rambling is that it comes down to understanding that calories in and calories out is still very important. If you have a desired goal – you have to have a plan of attack to tackle that goal. We all have our struggles and even when we know the right things to do (even though a lot of us don’t) it is hard to consistently put into practice all of those principles. However, when you feel that you have been struggling to reach your goals and even working against yourself at times, you may need to give yourself a kick in the rear and do something that you don’t really like doing just once or twice to remind yourself of what it is that you are working for and what you are trying to avoid. And finally, don’t run unless you know how to take care of your body before and after.
Thanks for reading
Andy
Monday, July 13, 2009
Keep Hammerin it Home ...
So I was watching Big Brother (guilty pleasure) and just in case you weren't keeping up with it, there is a former contestant competing on the show again this year. He is a bodybuilder who actually has a really aesthetically pleasing physique. I have actually seen this guy in person and he keeps himself in great condition and should be commended for that. He is also incredibly arrogant and annoying a lot of the time and doesn't do himself a lot of favors with his attitude. But I digress. Another contestant made a comment about not working out for like 8 years and how he felt intimidated about being around this bodybuilder guy or something like that. That made me think about the extremes we see in the "fitness world".
I can't imagine not working out for a month much less year/s. But I also realize this guy that made the statement about not working out for so long definitely represents a population that is out there. This individual wasn't heavy and didn't look "out of shape" but you could tell they hadn't lifted a weight in a LONG time. I realize there are people out there that just don't get it - they just don't do it.
And then you have this other extreme. The bodybuilder puts amazing amounts of effort into how he looks. His diet and weight training and cardio have to be absolutely flawless. Even if he was blessed with great genetics, this guy still has an upper caliber physique. I know the difference between just a nice build and a really well crafted body. I can guarantee you that this guy doesn't go more than a couple of days, maybe a week - without working out.
So you have these extremes. You have these two guys, roughly the same age, both Americans (I assume) and both with the ambition to audition and make it on to a reality show. And at the same time there perception/experience regarding working out that couldn't be more different. For one, the thought of going into a gym and starting weight training probably would feel like going to a foreign country. And for the other you have a guy who would feel as if their lifeblood was being drained if they didn't have the gym as a daily ritual.
My take on this is that I think we have folks out there that still see the idea of exercise and especially weight training as an all or nothing thing. You have people that feel like only big "weight lifters" or bodybuilders should be in the weight area of a gym. Or you have the people that drift far far away from the daily habit of keeping their muscle and skeletal systems strong and functional. And when they do "get back into it" (as I hear a lot) they have this all or nothing mentality. Which inevitably leads to some hurdle coming along and getting them "off track". And of course you also have the other extreme; those individuals who almost let their time in the gym consume them to a point where other thing get sacrificed.
I guess the point to all this is that there has to be a middle ground. There has to be an understanding that EVERYONE needs to be doing work to keep themselves strong and functional. That doesn't mean you have to obsess about it and spend hours a day in the gym "weight lifting". But some resistance training at least 3 days a week is absolutely crucial. And taking weeks, months, or (gasp) even years off from the gym is just irresponsible and lazy. Sorry to be so cutting but I continue to run into people who I haven't seen for weeks or even months and then their responses about why they haven't been "on track" are just excuses for the fact that they have not given that part of their life the importance it deserves. And on a final note - I will again continue to hammer home the fact that everyone needs to learn how to lift some weights properly and appropriately for their own bodies and do it regularly. The benefits (which I need to just do a whole post on) are numerous and important.
Thanks for reading,
Andy
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
This One's for the Boys!
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
The Quest to Lose 20 lbs.
Monday, May 25, 2009
A Little Something is Better Than All of Nothing.
Friday, May 15, 2009
Untapped Potential and Missed Opportunities
If you have someone in your life that doesn’t work with resistance training equipment at all – I implore you to talk with you about it’s importance or direct him or her to someone who can. The following blog was inspired by my last week.
Many of you may know that I had a death in the family just this past week. Because of this I was forced to do some reflection. This particular family member was around 75 and lived in a really nice community of like-aged folks. As such, I met a lot of the friends this individual had and was able to spend time talking with them at the “celebration of life” that we held. Before, during and after this event I reflected on what life must be like at that age and what thoughts people had on exercise in their later years. Inevitably, at the “party” I would end up talking with these older adults about what they were doing for exercise and fitness.
The most common thought I had as I listened is that these folks are missing a huge opportunity. Here they are in the time of their life when often they have nothing but time and they are not seizing that moment as a chance to get and stay fit. When I asked about what they thought about exercise I hear a lot of comments like “well I walk and that’s enough” or “I don’t want to lift weights because I am not trying to enter any physique contests”! (Which is what I think is the funniest thing of all! AS IF! Do they know how hard you have to work to make your body look like that? … Well, obviously not)
I just couldn’t believe how many men and women would say things that really showed that they felt like weight training was not for them. One of the most common “rationales” is that they had an injury or ailment that “keeps them from being able to do much”! WHAT?!?! You have an ailment that you most likely got from not taking care of yourself … and your way of dealing with it is to take even less care of yourself?!?! It just sort of drives me crazy to think about it.
There was a lot of talk about injuries or physical limitations. I would say over and over …”because you have an injury or limitation – you have that much more of a reason to make your body stronger and as functional as possible”. I kept explaining that if there is something that holds you back physically like bad knees or back – then learn how to strengthen the areas around it – safely and with the aid of a trained professional who will push you but also show you the safe and most effective ways to work with your body!
Now I would like to say that this issue is an issue that is only in the elderly population - but it’s not! As I reflected and looked around me, I realized that people young and old alike are not tapping into their true potential because of misconceptions about exercise. For the last time people (not really) weight training is for everyone!!! It makes you a stronger more functional healthy version of yourself!!! Learn how to work with your body and work with weights till the day you die. IT WILL IMPROVE YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE!!!
My family member who died thought they were doing all the exercise they could or needed (I think). It wasn’t near enough. This family member was slumped over and frail for as long as I knew them. They had no weight training in their life. Of course I encouraged – but I live far away and didn’t have as much chance to communicate or oversee, as I would have needed to. I am not saying that if they had that the death could have been avoided but I do think that there may have been more of a fighting chance. At least I know in my heart that they would have experienced better quality of life in the final months.
On the way back to home I observed lots of people in the airports and on the plane. I saw a lot of people that from my naked eye – obviously did little to no exercise and certainly no strength/weight training. I saw all sorts of mobility issues and postural distortions etc. that I can’t help but know and believe could be alleviated if these people would just embrace the idea that their bodies can be stronger, more functional, more resilient and longer lasting if they would incorporate weight/strength training into their lives.
Thanks for reading,
Andy
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