My name is Andy Caraway. I am currently a licensed professional counselor in Colorado. I have a M.S. in Counseling Psychology from Avila University in Kansas City, MO and a M.S. in Education from the University of Kansas. I am an addiction specialist and have also have experience working with individuals dealing with anxiety, depression, personality disorders, sexual issues and trauma. I like to include eastern philosophy into my treatment and have a person-centered style of therapy.
Monday, May 25, 2009
A Little Something is Better Than All of Nothing.
Friday, May 15, 2009
Untapped Potential and Missed Opportunities
If you have someone in your life that doesn’t work with resistance training equipment at all – I implore you to talk with you about it’s importance or direct him or her to someone who can. The following blog was inspired by my last week.
Many of you may know that I had a death in the family just this past week. Because of this I was forced to do some reflection. This particular family member was around 75 and lived in a really nice community of like-aged folks. As such, I met a lot of the friends this individual had and was able to spend time talking with them at the “celebration of life” that we held. Before, during and after this event I reflected on what life must be like at that age and what thoughts people had on exercise in their later years. Inevitably, at the “party” I would end up talking with these older adults about what they were doing for exercise and fitness.
The most common thought I had as I listened is that these folks are missing a huge opportunity. Here they are in the time of their life when often they have nothing but time and they are not seizing that moment as a chance to get and stay fit. When I asked about what they thought about exercise I hear a lot of comments like “well I walk and that’s enough” or “I don’t want to lift weights because I am not trying to enter any physique contests”! (Which is what I think is the funniest thing of all! AS IF! Do they know how hard you have to work to make your body look like that? … Well, obviously not)
I just couldn’t believe how many men and women would say things that really showed that they felt like weight training was not for them. One of the most common “rationales” is that they had an injury or ailment that “keeps them from being able to do much”! WHAT?!?! You have an ailment that you most likely got from not taking care of yourself … and your way of dealing with it is to take even less care of yourself?!?! It just sort of drives me crazy to think about it.
There was a lot of talk about injuries or physical limitations. I would say over and over …”because you have an injury or limitation – you have that much more of a reason to make your body stronger and as functional as possible”. I kept explaining that if there is something that holds you back physically like bad knees or back – then learn how to strengthen the areas around it – safely and with the aid of a trained professional who will push you but also show you the safe and most effective ways to work with your body!
Now I would like to say that this issue is an issue that is only in the elderly population - but it’s not! As I reflected and looked around me, I realized that people young and old alike are not tapping into their true potential because of misconceptions about exercise. For the last time people (not really) weight training is for everyone!!! It makes you a stronger more functional healthy version of yourself!!! Learn how to work with your body and work with weights till the day you die. IT WILL IMPROVE YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE!!!
My family member who died thought they were doing all the exercise they could or needed (I think). It wasn’t near enough. This family member was slumped over and frail for as long as I knew them. They had no weight training in their life. Of course I encouraged – but I live far away and didn’t have as much chance to communicate or oversee, as I would have needed to. I am not saying that if they had that the death could have been avoided but I do think that there may have been more of a fighting chance. At least I know in my heart that they would have experienced better quality of life in the final months.
On the way back to home I observed lots of people in the airports and on the plane. I saw a lot of people that from my naked eye – obviously did little to no exercise and certainly no strength/weight training. I saw all sorts of mobility issues and postural distortions etc. that I can’t help but know and believe could be alleviated if these people would just embrace the idea that their bodies can be stronger, more functional, more resilient and longer lasting if they would incorporate weight/strength training into their lives.
Thanks for reading,
Andy
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Theme of the Day!
Sunday, April 19, 2009
7 Deadly Sins
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
My Soap Box on Working Out
Thursday, February 12, 2009
My Story - A Taller, Awkward, Skinny-ish Kid with Bad Genetics
Friday, December 19, 2008
In the Grand Scheme of Things ...
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Food and stuff ...
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Recipes and Stuff ...
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Exercise Psychology and what not ...
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
What Works for YOU?!?!
So what does all this mean to someone reading this (assuming that someone else is reading this besides me and I am not rambling to myself???)? It means that we have to quest to find what works for us each individually. Most likely you fall into the category of struggle with diet and struggle with workouts. If you don't and you happen to be one of those people who has found results through your efforts, then kudos to you. However, if you are the person that needs guidance and direction, start thinking about what truly works for YOU. Now - the most important thing to consider to determine this, you need to get a little scientific. What I mean is that you need to take a look at the variables in your life that you can manipulate. Things like what you eat, how much you eat, what sort of training you do and how much of it you do are all very important variables to consider. By looking at each of those individually and thinking about what you are currently doing - then thinking about whether or not that is currently working for you - you can start to think about what changes you may need to make. And not every variable may need to be changed right this moment. Some things you do because they really do work for you and without them, things wouldn't work. (Does that all make sense or I am lost in la la land?) Take an individual who is struggling to lose weight, get to the gym enough, work out effectively and eat right. So I take those variables and break them down. How much exercise seems doable right now ... and what are you currently doing ... how is that working out for you??? (Dr. Phil anyone?) Then I take a look at diet. What are you currently eating, what changes could you make, etc. etc. Some things may not work for you. For instance if you know that in the past you have done hours of cardio a day with little change, then you may need to consider that sort of cardio just doesn't work for you. What other sorts of cardio does your body respond to? If you have tried low carb or low fat diets and they have had mixed results not only in how your body responded but also in how you felt while on them and whether or not you wanted to continue ... then again ask, what works best for you. I know all this seems ambiguous and that is because there are so many variables that can be manipulated in so many different ways that to comment on them all would take a book. My thoughts are though, after talking with different folks and hearing all of the things that work and don't work for people, it really strikes me as important to take some time and really think about/meditate on/write out or whatever ... what works for you?
Finally, I am always struck by some of the people that I seem in the gym consistently that have everything clicking and really seem to have found what works for them. What I often find is most consistent amongst the people that have found that is they are strong in the following areas:
Consistency
Effortlessness (not in effort that is put out but effort it takes to muster up the energy to make them do what they have to do)
Schedule
Routine
Discipline
Contentment
Take those words for what they mean and think about that next time you are thinking about what will work for you.
Andy
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